Wednesday, July 31, 2013

Finding Joy in a Singapore hallway


Finding Joy in a Singapore Hallway

 

In 1974, war with Vietnam was still winding down. Although I had travelled alone through the Caribbean and parts of Europe, I did not feel experienced enough in my professional skills to handle Asia by myself given the diversity of language and alphabet. So, in September of that year, I began a guided tour where I would celebrate the most joyous birthday of my life.

This tour was no “It’s Tuesday, so it must be Belgium” sort of drill. A small group of 25 upscale people were to stay in four star hotels, and eat gourmet ala carte meals the entire 21 days.  With industry perks of that time, I would be able to fly the entire itinerary first class, which was quite elegant in those days. With the exception of contemporary honeymooning Bostonian couple David and Anne, and her sister Jean, all other fellow travelers were retired couples.

September 29th found me sad  in Singapore at the brand new  Hilton.  Before even the official hotel grand opening, only four floors were open for occupancy.  Every room came with a “tea boy”, who was available to draw a bath, fluff pillows, and, oh yes, make pots of wonderfully fragrant jasmine tea!  This luxury hotel was located right on Orchard Road, the hub of shopping and nightlife in Singapore.

So, In the midst of this luxury adventure in exotic locales, how could I be sad?

The group had just arrived in Singapore two days early because the Khmer Rouge had advanced on Angkor Wat, the beautiful 12th century temple in Cambodia, making it impossible for us to safely tour there.  For me, exploring Angkor Wat was one of the most desired parts of this trip, and now I had to forgo it.

Mostly, though, I was sad because it was my 30th birthday and I wasn’t with old friends to share it.  David, his wife, and her sister were planning to have a small celebratory dinner with me after our sightseeing was over. Nice, but not the same as being with my pals at home. 

 On the bus, we asked Darryl, our guide, for help in where to dine. Some of our other travel fellows overheard.  Significantly among the eavesdroppers were John and his wife Patsy from Skaneateles, New York.  John was a blustery, bigger than life, no nonsense sort that had made his fortune reclaiming chromium from old car bumpers, while Patsy was the reigning doyenne of the Skaneateles Country Club. It was John Wayne and Roz Russell!

John would have none of our modest plan.  He announced that “the kid” was having a birthday and everyone was invited to celebrate.  He and Patsy had suite accommodations, so all in our group were invited to their rooms for a party.

At 6:00 pm guests began to arrive at the suite.  John had ordered room service asking for bar and set ups plus appetizers for our group. An hour later there was a knock on the door.  One waiter in a simple smock and badge had two trays: one held a bottle of Scotch, a Bottle of gin, a bottle of seltzer and one of plain water.  No ice. The other tray:  a plate of crackers and a small bowl of peanuts. Patsy was crestfallen; her Pearl Mesta facade seriously shaken.  John fumed. He called room service. I’m sure they noted his demeanor in no small measure.

That was a polite way of saying he gave ‘em Hell!  But all his invective was to no avail. He was informed that because the hotel was so new kitchen facilities were limited and, already closed, anyway .

John called Darryl.  “This is a God-damned Hilton Hotel, we’re paying guests, the kid is having a birthday, we’re all ready to party, and all they can give us is a bottle of crappy Scotch and a pity plate of parrot crackers.  Now, dammit, just what in hell are you going to do?” John wasn’t a man of political correctness. He was, however, persuasive. Darryl promised to call the hotel manager immediately. 

With our room tea cups and water glasses, we  sipped Scotch and gin like Iowa church ladies with their Sherry tipple.  Other than John, we were in good spirits. I was in a happy mood, amused that such a fuss was being made over my birthday.

A scant 45 minutes someone rapped on our door:  It was Darryl … with the hotel manager, summoned from his home.  One by one, we emerged from the suite, beckoned by Darryl to behold the hallway.

A hallway now filled with easily 20 waiters in full livery attending to 15 or so carts lined up far down the hall. Carts laden with hors d’oeuvres on silver platters, chafing dishes of wonderful Asian delicacies, a carver with a roast of beef, and several bar carts with liquor, ice, and glassware. Plus an ice sculpture- a backlit rising dragon in ice on a rolling cart in a hotel hallway!  And a violinist!  We were amazed. Where had this circus come from so quickly?  Other hotel guests heard the commotion, and in various states of dress and undress, came out. They were welcomed to join in. There was food and drink for 100.  Crab Rangoon, satay, lobster kabobs, steamed dumplings and Indonesian corn fritters were but a few delicacies sampled.  In this crowded hallway we drank, ate, laughed, talked and mingled. For a night strangers became friends. John was positively beaming that this was all brought forth on his impetus. I was regaled.

Having partied late into that night, a tired lot rose at 7am the next day to board the flight to Bangkok, still happy with the experience of something very special happening that night in a hallway at the Singapore Hilton hotel.   For me, the experience defined Joy and sounded a major chord to the quality of life I have been blessed with.
And John never got a bill.                                                                      -Jerry Wendt



Although actually taken at the Imperial Hotel in Tokyo, this was the group that celebrated my memorable birthday. I am center rear with the abstract shirt

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